I met my husband on a dating site we had a fast courtship and ended up getting married on a whim. I fell in love with someone that wasn’t capable of love. I had blinders on so to speak. Looking back I can see all the red flags at the time I chose to ignore them. You see I was pregnant and he wanted me to have an abortion. Red flag – sitting at his kitchen table and me 8 weeks pregnant and him with a pad of paper and a pencil drawing a line down
the middle and listing pros and cons of having a baby . I listened to him but my mind was made up I was not having an abortion I was 33 years old at the time and he was 32. I was determined to do this with or without his help.